Why do men want the girlfriend experience with an escort? It's been depicted in films such as Pretty Woman. There are a film and television series of the same name. It even had a ‘blink-and-you'll-miss-it' appearance in an episode of ‘The Big Bang Theory'. However, there is much confusion about what the ‘girlfriend experience' actually entails. If the direct transaction of exchanging sex for money is a little bit skeevy for your tastes when visiting an escort, then the ‘girlfriend experience' might be for you. The ‘girlfriend experience', or ‘GFE' if you want to be more tech-savvy, refers to the commercial service of exchanging sex with money, with a dash of the romanticism and butterflies that comes with a new romantic relationship. Unlike the traditional ‘hit-it-and-quit-it' approach that is normal with conventional escort-customer relationships, the ‘girlfriend experience' allows for both the escort and client to exchange not only sexual pleasure, but also emotional intimacy – akin to that of a ‘normal' romantic relationship. The details, and therefore prices, vary with each individual exchange – however, the general idea of the ‘girlfriend experience' is to provide more of a personalised and comprehensive sexual experience that is more gratifying for the client, and far more lucrative for the sex worker. A typical experience of the ‘girlfriend experience may start with a date: dinner, wine and conversation. Flirting and physical touching makes up a massive component of the date; so make sure your hygiene is in tip-top shape. If the date goes well for both parties, the consenting couple may move to a place ‘where the magic happens' and have a good night. Although sex is a big (but not compulsory) part of the girlfriend experience, most individuals look more for the quasi-emotional connection that the escort provides for their client. To sum up the girlfriend experience in one sentence, it would probably be described as a ‘therapy session sandwiched by sex'. Due to its clandestine and taboo nature, many clients see their escorts as an inconsequential sounding board, where they can unload not only their sexual frustrations but also their own personal problems. Unlike the ‘think-before-you-speak' approach with a finger on ‘damage control' that needs to be readily available when making your daily communicative interactions, there is no need for such preparation with the GFE. Blunt and unfiltered words flow out in a ‘stream of consciousness' approach, and reciprocally, no consequences will come back to bite you. The girlfriend experience is fundamentally constructed to be fun and safe for both parties. If the suggestion of one discrete night of sex and sparkling conversation with a pretty partner sounds useful to you, then the girlfriend experience might be right up your alley. Hold on tight. You're in for a good time.
Answer by: Shivani