What sexual service do men want most from escorts?

Let's try to find out what are the most requested services that men ask for when visiting a female escort?


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Mature conversation and companionship are some of the most requested services that men want when visiting an escort. Perhaps this is unsurprising when you look at the expectation of services between an escort and a prostitute. Men expect escorts to provide a more entertainment-based service when compared with a prostitute. A prostitute's primary goal is to get paid for sex. An escort's primary goal is to get paid for the entertainment and companionship she or he provides a client. The service often includes sex, but it more often requires conversation, and according to the data that is the escort service men want the most.​


Why not sex? Sex is part of the service for many escorts, but it is sometimes rated below companionship. In 2016 a study run by Susann Huschke and Dirk Schubotz of The University of Limerick and Queens Belfast University in Northern Ireland found that many men are seeking intimacy, company and conversation from an escort. This data is further supported by escorts around the world, including 3 in the UK who were asked to interview their clients anonymously for an article published by Marie Claire in 2017. Each woman identified herself as a professional escort with each client coming from a different background. In each ​case, when asked why they hired an escort and what they liked most about the service, the answers were very similar: "You listen to my every word. And when we go to bed, you do everything you can to pleasure me." "My wife and I have an okay marriage. The problem is, I need more sex than she gives me. I don't want to have an affair, as that would feel like too much of an emotional betrayal." "It is about you as a person as well. I didn't originally mean it to be like that when I first came to you, but I have to admit that we have built up a kind of relationship between us."


Conversation and companionship While there are many people just looking for sex from an escort, there are more looking for services beyond sex. Many escort agencies report that younger escorts are not as in high demand as their older colleagues. Born and raised in Australia, Gwyneth Montenegro spent 12 years in the industry as an escort and sex worker to pay for further education. In her book "10,000 men and counting" she confirms one of the most sought after services men wanted from her. "Most gentlemen don't always go for the kinky services. In fact, many men want a genuine conversation and connection." Gwyneth goes on to state that a large proportion of her clients were older men who weren't that interested in having sex with someone in their early 20s. They were far more interested in building a longer-lasting connection with their chosen escort. Montenegro's experience confirms many other escort accounts. In the UK for example, "Samantha X", herself an escort in her late 30s, runs a successful escort agency in the UK. She has noticed that women in their late 30s, 40s and 50s are the most popular escorts in her agency, regularly hired out to repeat clients at sometimes three times the rate her younger escorts are. She reasons that hardly any client in his 50s or 60s wants to chat with someone who might be the same age or younger than his own daughter. The conversation starts here So there you have it. While​ sex is still a part of the experience, the most sought after escort services by men are the ones that include intelligent conversation and companionship.


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